Vicky1106
Nov 15 2008, 01:04 PM
he and me had been friend for a long time. We talk to each other everyday and he helped me whenever I ask, so I grew to like him but didn't tell him because I don't want to get in a relationship then, and still want to be friend for some more time before expressing it to him. But, he got a girlfriend now, so should I tell him now? or what should I do?
nhelen79
Nov 15 2008, 05:34 PM
be honest to your feeling is not a bad thing. Go ahead and tell him if that would make you feel better, but don't expect things in return. If he really loves his girlfriend, expressing to him won't change/damage his relationship

OR maybe .........save your breath for the next guy coming along
tinhsaudonphuong
Nov 17 2008, 08:05 AM
There is no point of telling him right now, since he already got a gf... beside after you told him you got crush on him. You two wouldn't feel comfortable when you see each other...Just letting thing stay the way it is and move on.
Vicky1106
Nov 20 2008, 10:59 PM
Thanks for everyone suggestions. Yeah, it would be best to have a friend than not. But it would take time to dislike him though, right?
nhelen79
Nov 21 2008, 12:15 AM
it would take time to "dislike" someone ...maybe the first step is to "distance" yourself from him
Sparkling
Dec 11 2008, 10:14 PM
what the point of telling him ur feeling since he already had a gf? it won''t help out anything but effecting his relationship and ruining ur friendship. Just keep the way it is, like TSDP said, MOVE ON... There are planty fishes out there, save ur true love for ur Mr. Right
hanthaiphong
Feb 12 2009, 09:14 AM
Well, im honest to tell that u are too late to express your feeling to him right now.......that's cause once the chance came, u were the one who let it go, but later on u wanna take it back as well........Sorry, he completely is out of you forever...............It serves u right
ENT99
Mar 7 2009, 11:48 AM
Like one member mentioned. There is no point in telling him right now. If you really "like" him don''t you want to see him be happy? Secondly, a friend would not want ruin another friend relationship, if that friend is happy with his or her relationship. Thirdly, why would you want to start to "dis like" him? In my personal opinion, let nature take it course. If you and him are meant to be together later on then nature will take care of it. Just be friend, a supportive friend. If his relationship work out, then be happy for him. If it does not it might mean he and you are meant to be together.
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